Defining Your Purpose For a Better Life

 

Growing up, I never knew that I would end up being what I am today. Although I did start young in selling different things, it was something that I wanted to do. Not for some selfish reasons, but because I wanted to help my parents in my own small way so that they would not be worried about giving me my daily allowance in going to school. Selling candies and comics was what I often sold, and at a young age, I didn’t consider it to work. It was fun knowing that I was earning, and at the same time, it was a way of alleviating my parents’ worries.

Living in a very loving household, I knew that I would have a “relieved” life because we all helped one another in every way we could. Being able to study at a Catholic school has molded me in such a way that I have been enlightened by the enormous love of God. Although life was never perfect for us, I never thought of losing my grip on God because I understand that all things happen for a reason.

As I grew older, I found many gratifying things to do. I have worked in several companies, worked as an OFW….Although I appreciated these opportunities, and I could say that it has helped me put food on the table, I felt something was lacking. I needed to do something that would give me the joy that I have dreamed of — something gratifying for myself and at the same time for others.

Left with an uncomfortable feeling of dissatisfaction, I needed something more to do. I contemplated which path I should take, carefully considering its pros and cons. It was quite an ordeal looking for that one perfect opportunity, the fulfillment of my purpose. I kept on asking myself, “Why am I here? What is my purpose in life?”. I am sure that you have also asked yourself the same question. Have you found your purpose?

Then one day, I just decided to finally quit my job and start to run my own business. It was a huge step to take. A bit scary, but I was all out in making a massive turnaround for my family. The action I took indeed was a life-changing experience. And I would say that it was just the perfect time to do what I really was happy doing. — mentoring aspiring entrepreneurs are enriching other people’s life.

The past 35 years have been a roller coaster ride. Like any kind of business, I have also come across different bumps as I struggle to maintain the business. Meeting other people was a joy. It was something that I was always happy about. Aside from them seeking my help on managing their business properly, I was also ecstatic to see the results of my perseverance. Because now, those I have helped have become well-known local brands. I could not just get any prouder.

Your life purpose has three components: who you are, how you envision yourself, and how you see yourself making something for the world and its value. When you can identify each of these components, I would say that you have successfully reached your very purpose in life.

Questions to ask yourself to help you realize your purpose in life

You can’t just stare blankly on-air and just let things happen for you. You need to scrutinize yourself and find out your objective and what will make you truly happy.

1. Who am I?
2. What makes my heart sing?
3. How do you see yourself in a crowd?
4. What can you do to make a difference?
5. What values and principles can act as our guide in life?

With these questions, I was slowly able to see what I really needed to do in my life. You should not focus just on yourself. You should also consider your family and how they will fit into your “future self.” These questions have led me to become who I am today. It was never an instant “new me and new life.” Gradually, I felt a deep sense of fulfillment.

So, when someone asks me today how to find life’s purpose, I would respond: Life is full of opportunities that we need to identify which ones are the best for us. We should have the courage, awareness, and creative expression to serve others with compassion.

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